Around the world, visions or gender inequality are changing everywhere. Still, it is sadly not yet what it should be. There’s abuse, catcalling, unwanted touching and so on. Gladly, things have slowly been breaking down, and many people understand that women are just as courageous, just as crazy and just as fun as only men were taught to be.
Throughout history and in our everyday life, we see women giving their all into the hands of adventure. So why shouldn’t it be for travel?
There are things guys will just… Never understand. Especially when it comes to a woman, alone, travelling. So I put together a list of things that traveling women everywhere would LOVE for you to know!
Not all girls are interested in money.
One of the myths that has taken relevance is that “all” women want a man’s money. That’s completely false in many different levels. First of all, women make their own money nowadays, and if they are traveling alone is because they have enough money to survive, however it may be. So don’t flatter yourself, we are not going after your “millions”.
Women are looking for adventure too!
Just as men what to let go, forget everything, have a drink and maybe find someone special for the night… Women want the same! And not all of them, of course. But women are a lot stronger than you think. Give them a chance, and you’ll have the time of your life.
When you flirt with a girl…
If you decide to flirt with a woman you like, try to keep it classy. If you start off too straightforward, it will backfire. She does not think you’re interesting, pleasant or cool, she just thinks you’re a fool. A woman who travels, especially one that travels alone, knows what she wants. Try to be the man who sparks her interest. Not only ANOTHER ONE trying to get in her pants.
We want sex
As I said before, not all of us… But many of us want great, hot and unforgettable sex so we can tell our friends every little detail of the trip, especially about that local hottie who made us reach the stars… So yeah! We are looking for a little fling as we travel. Don’t try and impress us but telling us your stories with “other women”. We will never share our spicy secrets.
If you keep the secrets you’re cheating.
Just because a woman is in town for a short period of time, that does not mean she wants to be the “other woman”, or have a strictly physical relationship. If you are married or have a relationship, be straight from the start. Some women don’t care. But some do.
You need not be Superman.
Women who travel are not usually looking for “the one”. We just want someone who males us feel comfortable, we do’t want a “movie star” or a player. Just someone to laugh it off, go someplace new, and make us feel special.
Do not make promises you don’t intend to keep.
If there is something women hate the most is being lied to. Women hate when men break their promises since it can be devastating. It’s better for you to have fun, make no promises and keep serious words to yourself.
We are only human
Are men from Mars and women are from Venus? The differences between men and women enrich and complement us, but sometimes not understanding the opposite sex is stressful. If you tell us you love us, we WILL freak out, especially if it’s a few days since we0ve met.
Traveling women= traveling dreams
Traveling women don’t just travel. They dream, and they dream big. Maybe they don’t dream about a white horse being ridden by a handsome prince, but they do dream big. They dram about their next destination and their way of making the world a better place. And… who are we kidding? They dream of finding love too. In the most unexpected place. In the most amazing way.
We speak our mind.
If there’s something we don’t like, we will tell you. Traveling women know exactly where they’re coming from. Most of them trvel to enjoy, to forget or to start a new cycle. So it is not rare to find a woman who speaks her mind about social issues, the political scenario and the world in general.
On the bright side, if you ever cross yourselves with these women, you’ve found a treasure. Women who travel (for pleasure more than for business), are women that have seen things, and been places. They may have been broken once or twice, maybe gotten their heart broken, but they get back on their feet.
So when you find them, treasure them. As companions, as friends, and as an everlasting source of strength. When you meet them, cherish their words, cause they will be paying attention to every one of yours.