Unmaried sex: The big taboo (for some)

Being an unmarried professional in my twenties, talking about sex with anyone, you don’t know how many times I’ve heard:

“You need to value yourself”

“Good girls don’t do that”

“But… you don’t want to be called a slut!”

And you know what? I think it’s enough with the judgement! People are allowed to own their bodies in the way they want. For years now, we’ve heard that having sex is good. And we’ve also heard that having sex is not good. The truth is… As long as it’s voluntary, it is not up to anyone else but yourself to decide if its good or not.

Erotism

It’s no discovery that everybody has a different body, and that people choose to express in different ways. The one who have seen my pictures, know that I don’t only have a liberal view on the human body. This means that I do not consider it “offensive” when people showcase their bodies as part of an image meant to represent a context.
Talking about bodies – My body is curvy. Thick. Fat. Full. Chubby. – However you choose to call it.

Of that, I am not ashamed, and on  the contrary, it is something I love, because I know I am in full control of what I do and how I present myself. But it is also very discouraging when I post pictures in a swimsuit, with a tank top, or with a tight shirt. Both friends and strangers alike call me “overexposed” or “too sexy”. It’s not the same when slim girls put their pictures up in a bikini, because their small breasts and tiny waists are “aesthetical”.

I won’t apologize, and I won’t be disrespected for being who I am.

The dick pics

With the new wave of internet image sharing and social networks, it’s pretty easy to get caught up in sexting. I have news for you: IT’S NO BIG DEAL.

Whether you choose to share your images or not, it’s YOUR choice. But there’s also a tricky part: it has to be the choice of the other person too. On my Instagram DM, I receive a lot of dick pics. WHY? Because many people don’t understand that ANY sexual act must be CONSENSUAL. So basically, this is virtual rape. Nobody wants to see your dick, it’s not a pretty sight. When a woman wants to see it, she will let you know.

Sex for all

When it comes to sex and your body, it’s always YOU who will make a decision. Don’t let anyone (man or woman) push you into doing something that you don’t want to do. And if you do it, don’t let anyone make you feel ashamed of what, how, how many, and who.
We no longer live in the era where we became “damaged”, and had to marry at 15 before anyone could know. Make your own choices, but ALWAYS BE SAFE!

If you need any more tips for getting naughty on your travelling, check this!

65 thoughts on “Unmaried sex: The big taboo (for some)

  1. You are hit the nail precisely with noting that judgements have had enough play in the world. A person can do with their own body as they please and whomever they please, within those clear lines of consensual adulting.

  2. If you possess your body in social networks so most of people think about your body. .they’re thinking your looking for sexy there for Lot of people post negative comments on your pic. .
    women are like chocolate if they out from package so alots of Flies are thinking about the chocolate. …

    1. If women (or men) post their bodies, is because they love them, and feel confident. Nobody has the right to disrespect or offend them. There is no “package” for chocolates when it comes o women. Women are FREE and the social rules do not apply if they do not apply equally to them. I don’t understand what you mean about negative comments since no one is posting negative comments on my pic.

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